Author Archives: Betsy

Nearing the End of Chemo

I have been struggling with what to write here since I had my first dose of Adriamycin and Cytoxan. When I started writing about my cancer, my goal was and remains to be helpful and write in universal truths so … Continue reading

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Success!

I heard nothing from my nurse or oncologist this week about the status of my treatment. And, I decided to let the sleeping dog lie. So, I hopped in my car, drove to U of C, checked in on the … Continue reading

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Itty Bitty Tiny Setback

I have been a good soldier in my battle to cure this cancer. And, I have felt mostly optimistic and positive through this first leg of the journey. Genuinely so. But I think I would be misleading if I didn’t … Continue reading

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The light at the bottom of the stairs

When my treatment plan was just a concept, this vision popped into my mind’s eye. I thought of myself descending basement stairs into the darkness, but at the end there is a sliver of light and I imagine this light … Continue reading

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Why talk about cancer?

Talking about cancer and treatment makes it less scary

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Thoughts on Navigating Chemotherapy

I wish there was primer for people who are about to partake in chemotherapy. I spent lots of time Googling it and talking to different people about what to expect, but I always came away dissatisfied. They talked about nausea … Continue reading

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Hitting a Milestone — Halfway Through

Today I hit the half way mark with my chemotherapy. And all indications are that I  am responding very well to the treatment. Between my oncologist visit last week and my meeting with my surgeon this afternoon they both agree … Continue reading

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Finding Joy in Cancer

“Joy is the best makeup.” ― Anne Lamott, Grace (Eventually): Thoughts on Faith For me, cancer has not wiped out every bit of joy in my life. In fact, I have found more joy in the tiniest things. The thing about having … Continue reading

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Cancer Culture: Just Another Parallel Universe

When you are handed a cancer diagnosis you are also initiated into a new culture. I don’t think it has an official name. But I like alliteration so I will just call it Cancer Culture. While cancer is a biological … Continue reading

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Bye Bye Hair — Just for a bit

I now look like GI Jane. Sunday night was a bad night. My scalp was uncomfortable. I couldn’t get warm even though I had layers on over my pajamas and blankets and a thick down comforter on my bed. It … Continue reading

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